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Monica P. Collins
A member of stiletto feminism...
'We are all here to do what we are all here to do. I'm interested in ... the future ... and the only way to get there is together.' - The Oracle (Matrix Reloaded)
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I think that we really need to take couple's counseling. I think we have passed the point of worrying about others knowing our business. We shared our 'business' in front of a lot of strangers at Kroger yesterday, so much so that people got nervous enough to have a cop called (although I'm sure that your grabbing my t-shirt helped that along). We have got to do this better or we may one day get to the point where cops have to be called because one of us has hurt or killed each other. I know that you like to 'finish' a conversation/argument to its conclusion, however all that does is push us further and further into the argument, so much so that we wind up screaming at each other, and almost getting physical with each other. We can't keep that up. We should really go to our respective corners until each of us calms down enough to now yell at each other. I get aggravated because you are talking harshly at me, as though only your way is the right way, making me feel like a child again; I raise my voice; you consider that yelling and start yelling back, which makes you angrier; and it continues to escalate. We can't do this anymore, otherwise we will get to the point where we will hate each other. And not come back from it. If anything, both of us needs to take a couple on anxiety pills, then talk.
I really think that we have to do something that you really don't care for: seeing a nutritionist. Before you say that you don't have the money for it, I will pay for it. For the last few years, I have watched you have to reduce the foods that you can eat, almost to nothing. I've also watched you go back and forth on what foods you can eat. You'll say that you just discovered that you are not supposed to be eating something. Later on, you discover that it was actually ok to be eating said item. You have done this numerous times. Meanwhile, you are getting weaker because you 'supposedly' can only eat certain things. It's time to get help with this. You cannot, and should not, continue to do this all alone.
I really think that we have to do something that you really don't care for: seeing a nutritionist. Before you say that you don't have the money for it, I will pay for it. For the last few years, I have watched you have to reduce the foods that you can eat, almost to nothing. I've also watched you go back and forth on what foods you can eat. You'll say that you just discovered that you are not supposed to be eating something. Later on, you discover that it was actually ok to be eating said item. You have done this numerous times. Meanwhile, you are getting weaker because you 'supposedly' can only eat certain things. It's time to get help with this. You cannot, and should not, continue to do this all alone.
Thanks …
Monica P. Collins
A member of stiletto feminism...
'We are all here to do what we are all here to do. I'm interested in ... the future ... and the only way to get there is together.' - The Oracle (Matrix Reloaded)
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