Sunday, February 26, 2012

A serious argument


Thanks …

Monica P. Collins
http://dayofanadder.blogspot.com/   and   http://adhdcodersunite.blogspot.com/
A member of stiletto feminism...
'We are all here to do what we are all here to do.  I'm interested in ... the future ... and the only way to get there is together.' - The Oracle (Matrix Reloaded)

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Sent: Sunday, February 26, 2012 10:58 PM

I again find myself in the position of apologizing some for something I've done, something I said in anger.  Even though I do not know what it was that I had said to hurt you again, I'm sure it was something that I said out of anger, so I apologize.  I was angry because, like most females, I expected my man to see that I was upset over something, to figure it out and to offer to help.  Like every other female out there (at least I think so), we hope that those in our lives can figure us out and offer help.  It does not help that I don't ask for help on a good day, let alone when I'm upset about something.  I most especially don't like to ask for things from you, because many times in the past you have refused to help.  Because that is somewhat painful, I refrain from asking.  If I had been thinking straight, I would have just left the things in the car, gone in to shower then left.  That would have kept me from being aggraviated and saying things in anger.
I got angry today because I feel somewhat disrespected when I am coached on how I drive, most especially when I have not asked for the coaching.  I feel like I am not trusted to bring the vehicle, and the people in said vehicle, home in one piece.  I feel like I'm being treated like a child.  It's in times like these that I wish that I had never told you about my maladies, because I feel like you are spending your days compensating for them for me, instead of me learning to work with them.



I am sure that we are not the first people to have arguments in front of Kroger and we will not be the last.  As you said, we will live this down.  As much as there is turnover there, it should not take all that long.  The next time that we have an argument starting, I will head home.

Monica P. Collins
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A member of stiletto feminism...
'The great secret is not the variety of life, but the variety of us.'  L'Waxana Troi (Star Trek Next Generation)

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